Top 21 Dating Questions

Here’s a handy list of 21 top dating questions that you can ask others here at ChristianCupid.com to get to know them better.

This list is designed to help you gain an understanding of the really serious things – such as their values and future goals – as well as their general likes, dislikes and habits.
Happy dating!

General questions

1. What’s something special about yourself that I probably don’t know? This is a great ice breaker and will really get the other person thinking


2. What’s your Christian testimony? This is important in determining whether or not he or she is really serious about their faith


3. What in your life are you most proud of? This question will reveal his or her values: money, adventure, their Christian walk, education, etc.


4. What would you like to be doing in five years’ time? It’s important to watch out if they have goals that don’t include a relationship


5. If you had the chance, which one mistake would you change in your life? This will demonstrate what their past regrets are as well as indicate the areas in which they’re most likely to be careful in the future


6. If you had only six months to live, how would you spend them? This question will demonstrate their priorities and how they would respond in a crisis: recklessly or thoughtfully


7. What’s one job you’d love to do? This will indicate their passions


8. How do you spend your spare time? This will indicate whether you’d be compatible as a couple


9. What makes you laugh / cry? This important question will further reveal their personality

Relationship questions

1. What are you seeking in a relationship? This is crucial so you can determine whether or not you’re a match


2. What’s the most important value to you in a relationship? You’ll be able to tell whether they’re serious about long-lasting commitment or are just interested in a brief time of fun


3. What are you seeking in a husband / wife? This is another important question that will reveal the depth of their spiritual conviction as well as demonstrate whether you would match as a couple


4. Do you hope to have children? This crucial question needs to be resolved long before you enter into a marriage relationship or even an engagement


5. Do you believe in love at first sight? This will reveal whether or not he or she is a romantic, which may or may not suit your personality

Favourites

The following questions are all great for determining likes and dislikes and whether you have any favourite things in common:

• What’s your most treasured possession?


• What’s your favourite book?


• What’s your favourite movie?


• Who’s your favourite musician?


• As a child, who was your hero?


• Where’s your ideal holiday destination?


• Are you a morning person or a night person?

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